 Ex boyfriend wants it (relationship) again |
Missy N
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Last Post: 19.04.2011, 16:12
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| Monday, 08. March 2010 at 16:50 |
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Hi Guys I need your advice.
Recently my ex boyfriend, started smsing me and calling, apparently he wants me back, his even telling me that he wants to be with me, like the way we where, when we were going out. I'm in committed relationship with some1 who loves me and i love him back too,
But now this past few days, i'm having difficulties with sleeping, my ex boyfriend is too much on my case and now i just don't know what to do anymore. Guys i need your help.
How can make this guy understand that me i've moved on.
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Dai
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Last Post: 16.12.2011, 10:53
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 08:22 |
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Missy, I dont understand why you are having sleepless nights for something unimportant. You are clearly saying that you have moved on, so be it! What is so difficult to made it clear that you have moved on? One thing i am thinking here is that you have not really moved on, although you are saying you are committed to someone that loves you so much and vice versa! Were you the one who dumped him or him dumped you? It seems like your heart is saying the opposite. I am not judging you, cos we all do the same mistake thinking that we have moved on while our thoughts and hearts are pulling us back. My advice to you is that if you really love the current committed-boyfriend, break an ice with an ex and you betta do it now before the current guy suspects your feelings.
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wisdom
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Last Post: 21.04.2010, 15:42
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 12:33 |
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tel him how u fel, da truth that u re happy wth new relationship or pls i moved on eth my life. but first what cause the breakup(smthing reassembled) or cause relation 2 end.
life ve posibilty
consider ths:
1. wht if u go back 2 him and u end again?
2. what ll u do 2 da currently boyfriend?
3. do u enjoy breakup and apologise (if so how long)
4. implement breaking the chain mechanism ne
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Kapuu
Number Posts: 57
Last Post: 07.05.2010, 09:53
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 12:57 |
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Missy N, the ball is in your court. I advise that your ex must come up with his proposal or future plan. if possible written coz those U-turn guys are always risk. Let him declare his HIV status and state what caused your separation.
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Missy N
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Last Post: 19.04.2011, 16:12
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 14:15 |
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@ Dai, this guy phones me in the middle of the night, Thats why i'm having sleepless nights my dear. I Dumped him, And to be honest i want nothing to do with him. I informed him that I have moved on, And that i'm happy with my current boyfriend.
He replys like this: Baby if i can't have you back in my life, then you won't rest.
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THE MIGHTY CARETA
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Last Post: 08.02.2012, 08:21
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 14:32 |
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get a new number ! problem solved
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Kapuu
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 15:05 |
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Missy N. Contact the police Woman and Child protection Unit they will be good guys to assist you my dear.
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Missy N
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Last Post: 19.04.2011, 16:12
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 16:11 |
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Thanks for all your advice guys.
To make things clear to everyone, Me, Missy N, I don't want anything to do with my ex boyfriend.
Kapuu what proposal or future plans no man,
How do i make it clear to this guy that i don't want.
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chillizzo
Number Posts: 27
Last Post: 07.04.2011, 11:58
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 16:20 |
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Hey Missy, N! by not "resting" he means that he will be disturbing u nyt tym (Witch craft), just think of considering him back to solve the problem. anyway you were his before!
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Missy N
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Last Post: 19.04.2011, 16:12
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 16:21 |
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Getting a new number is like running away. @ careta2007, I'm looking for a way to solve this situation, Running away is not a soluation that i would consider.
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Missy N
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Last Post: 19.04.2011, 16:12
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 16:37 |
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Chillizzo, Iso u think i should consider him back? And what must i do with my current boyfriend, who i love so dearly. IF YOU ARE SAYING THIS....
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jmerrah
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Last Post: 16.05.2010, 23:01
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 16:51 |
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go on with your life dia and forget that exboo of yours
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fsnoop'y
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Last Post: 10.03.2010, 03:32
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| Wednesday, 10. March 2010 at 03:32 |
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i gusse that is just part of humulitation of a human being...my advice is just for you to report the ex of yours missy,,i am supporting the idea to go to the police
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Missy N
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Last Post: 19.04.2011, 16:12
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| Wednesday, 10. March 2010 at 09:45 |
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Thanks guys for all ur advices.
Kapuu I reported my ex yesterday afternoon, and i now have a case number and he was called in at the police station, and informed of the matter I brought fore to them, they told him to stay away from me. And i may say that i slept well last night. thanks alot guys.
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Missy N
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| Wednesday, 10. March 2010 at 09:45 |
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Thanks guys for all ur advices.
Kapuu I reported my ex yesterday afternoon, and i now have a case number and he was called in at the police station, and informed of the matter I brought fore to them, they told him to stay away from me. And i may say that i slept well last night.
thanks alot guys.
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set
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Last Post: 10.03.2010, 11:19
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| Wednesday, 10. March 2010 at 11:19 |
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tell the your guy straight forward that u don't have tym with him anymore. if he don't want take the case ahead
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loverzinho12 (guest)
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| Wednesday, 10. March 2010 at 12:04 |
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Do wat u think is rignt to u!
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Still Produk
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Last Post: 06.04.2011, 13:30
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| Wednesday, 10. March 2010 at 12:30 |
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Sister, the past is a past for a reason and going back there is just gonna cause you more problems... think of what made it you leave him (or be left) in the first place? Is that not gonna affect you now?
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ezla
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| Wednesday, 10. March 2010 at 12:55 |
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my advise to you sis is that you consider your happiness 1st before anything else. your happiness lies in the man that you love so stick to your current boyfriend. let your ex know that you cannot get back with him coz you`v moved on. be woman enough to face your ex and tell him the truth. be careful,those u-turns are really dangerous so you v got to be strict if you consider going back........ go where you believe you belong and don't look back..... luck of luck
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Peke
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| Wednesday, 10. March 2010 at 13:47 |
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Sorry that i am only coming in now, but its never too late neh. So Missy N'. you really tried hard to convince yourself. I am talking from a lady's perspective, love can be confusing and one can be blinded by it that's if you give yourself a room of apologies even when not needed. Going to the police station, and reporting the case and what have is another level of solving issues, but it might come back to you also ( but yaa not to blame you at this stage as it already happened). Bt ma advices are please stick to the man who makes you happy.
i am telling you guys that likes making U - turns are
1. Unlikely to stay
2. Likely to impregnant you on purpose
3. Likely to cheat and will not torelate any blame
4. Likely to mis use you claiming that you are the one that accepted him back so why complaining.
5. Likely to take advantage of you and act as if they are really in love
So siss let the guy live his ways do not even answer your phone when he calls you try to have his number blocked from calling you, mtc can do that for you, i am sure he will not go to that extend of buying a new number just for unless he is in sane
Good luck lol!
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