 I can't get over it, Guys. |
Brokenhearted
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Last Post: 03.03.2010, 14:09
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| Wednesday, 03. March 2010 at 14:09 |
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I was raped in 2007, I was a virgin. My best friend set me up.
I can't get over it till now. I never had a real relationship. Everytime I think I have heal, it will all suddenly come back. I have tried going for counselling several times, especially after it happened. It seemed to have worked for me but only for a short period as the memories still comes back clearly everytime. It's been 4 years. I need help guys
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cheeky
Number Posts: 57
Last Post: 17.08.2010, 17:08
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| Monday, 08. March 2010 at 09:33 |
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i cant begin to imagine how much pain you are in dear but you must try your best to get through it. do not give your rapist the satisfaction of seeing you down, make him pay for what he did to you by being the best person you can be and go on with your life. try to think of positive thoughts and the fact that you have come this far means you are a very strong person. give yourself time to heal and you will soon find someone you are comfortable with and who does not make you think of the rape. and remember that God loves you and wants you to llive a positive happy life. the healing process is hard but you will be happy one day and put the whole incident behind you. hope and faith will help you heal.
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| Re: I can't get over it, Guys. |
Dai
Number Posts: 821
Last Post: 16.12.2011, 10:53
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| Monday, 08. March 2010 at 13:02 |
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This is such a bad memory and only people who will put themselves in your shoes can understand the situation that you are going through for all these time. Honey, one thing you should know is that no one can make you forget this event other than yourself. You just need to go through a serious healing process, where you will have to accept (acceptance) that it has happened to you and yes, realize that the same strategy that has made you to live with it for the past 4 years can still keep you going. Living with a broken heart is unhealthy and can even cost your life, and imagine the brighter living that you have now / in the future. Be proud that the rapist (this evil) has left you with no diseases, other than a wound in your heart and remembrance and be proud that you have people supporting you in all the ways. There are millions of people in the world who were raped and they have survived it, and i am sure you will survive this! Learn how they have survived this trauma (http://www.dancinginthedarkness.com). It has been 4 years, and that has proven that you are strong enough to put this behind you. Check this out and i am sure you will thank me after this.
http://www.dancinginthedarkness.com/
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| Re: I can't get over it, Guys. |
Kapuu
Number Posts: 57
Last Post: 07.05.2010, 09:53
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| Monday, 08. March 2010 at 14:12 |
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What happened to the rapist?
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| Re: I can't get over it, Guys. |
Elaeti.nam
Number Posts: 553
Last Post: 27.06.2011, 11:16
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| Monday, 08. March 2010 at 14:18 |
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It is dishearting to hear about the cowardice acts of some men who still don't understand that No means No. A lot of girls are raped every day but they unfortunately never report their ordeals. Women gave birth to us, breastfed and cared for us, yet we repay them by disrespecting them.
My girl you are not the only one so stay strong. The acts of that coward must not change your positive outlook on life. Furthermore never give up on counselling. Those proffesionals are there to help people in your situation. Otherwise stay positive, it wa never your fault.
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