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 What will you do if it was you? |
mesho
Number Posts: 9
Last Post: 13.09.2011, 09:01
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| Tuesday, 02. March 2010 at 11:04 |
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i have bin dating a woman 4 8 consecutive years bt jst 2 realise this year that she has n stil cheatin.she is even renting behind ma back 4 6mnths.so after knowng this i take a revenge by slping wth her friend in her rum manga aka toolwa.do u guys thnk i solve the problem by doing tht?beside i wna mve on n is it necessary to tell her that i slpd wth her friend?
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 Re: What will you do if it was you? |
Still Produk
Number Posts: 185
Last Post: 06.04.2011, 13:30
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| Tuesday, 02. March 2010 at 12:14 |
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Mesho.
1st off, M sorry that you had to go through cheating experience after so many years of a quiet seemingly committed relationship!
Though I do not support your revenge action that you took, I feel that you should move on, since you decided NOT to work things out with yo Girl but rather sleep with the supposed 'friend' instead. You attempting revenge was not an option and it feels as though you were bonded for 8 years for sum odd reasons more than the mere love and affection, could be support and material things so a woman like that is not worth it!
Take note that my judgment on not based on the fact that she cheated, we don't know her or why she cheated for that matter... They are based on You and the action that you took after you found about your gal cheating.
In any case, I suggest you follow your heart for clear conscious motivated decision!
Peace.
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| Re: What will you do if it was you? |
junicky
Number Posts: 49
Last Post: 23.01.2012, 15:02
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| Tuesday, 02. March 2010 at 12:19 |
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I dont think you solve the problem by getting involved with her best friend. Its realy a sad thing to hear after your commitment for 8 years and get yourself into this. I think you must be honest to her about your feelings and ask her what you mean to her, and tell her that you are fed up with her dirty games and you wanna move on with your life. Its a choice whether to her or not, because the fact is that you also cheated on her with her friend even if its out of revenge and that makes it worse. You both must move on with someone you realy deserves.
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| Re: What will you do if it was you? |
Dai
Number Posts: 821
Last Post: 16.12.2011, 10:53
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| Tuesday, 09. March 2010 at 08:59 |
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Mem, what happened to you is really bad and one cannot wish it to happen to anyone else. BUT acting the way you did was a stupid one. In life you will never solve a problem with a problem. One thing you should consider is that there are reasons why a person has to cheat. I cannot jump off my bed to go cheat, if everything is fine fine and sweet sweet. 8 long years is a long journey and a long time to stick to someone, but commitment, honest, intimacy, caring, visions and friendship is the only way that can bind you together for such a long time. Believe me not as long as there is something missing, you will read your woman's back! I am a woman and i am telling you this as a woman, as a sista, a woman will not stick with you if you are not giving her any good direction, she cannot just stay with you for a long time and there is no future, as we (women ) are growing up, our thoughts get focussed in the future. I personally cannot waste my 8 years to something which is not going to work. Women are so clever and can easily detect your intentions. I am not covering your gal's deeds, what she did is wrong but you have to analyse the situation, to find out why she cheated.
One thing we should know is that once to stay with someone for a long time, we tend to change our intimacies or simply you get tired of the same acting. Many people dont believe this but sex is an important issue in a relationship, if you cannot meet the sexual needs of your woman or man, expect her to find someone to meet those needs. Especially most of our wambo guys/brothers, they are not initiative, and offcourse, one can get tired of a Nandos chicken (women's legs always up). If you happen to change something that you have been doing, expect the person to doubt you and leave you.
Mesho, find out why your lady cheated on you and improve on it!
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| Re: What will you do if it was you? |
mesho
Number Posts: 9
Last Post: 13.09.2011, 09:01
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| Thursday, 11. March 2010 at 08:12 |
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thanks verymuch to ur sugtions and i real appreciate them all.Dai u a rght bt dont u thnk nandos chicken style is beta thn okuyuva ongobe?besid gals a not obligd to make sugstion on wch style thy want.so if ur man lyk 1styl means u wl follw evn if u a nt com4tble wth it?solution is to tlk nt to go cheat.anway i cnt lay ma eyes on ma x anmo cz whn eva m tryn 2,i jst feel hatred.
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| Re: What will you do if it was you? |
Kapuu
Number Posts: 57
Last Post: 07.05.2010, 09:53
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| Thursday, 11. March 2010 at 08:42 |
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Dai
You sounds like a relationship veteran. Thanks for your advise I also benefited in it.
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