 Is it right for a man to get maried at the age of 25? |
BrownT
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| Tuesday, 02. February 2010 at 16:16 |
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is it right for a man to get maried at the age of 25?
\My brother will turn 25 in May, and his 28 years old girl friend is proposing to get married in December. Is he old enough to get married or he still young? Please help?
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EPANGELO
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| Tuesday, 02. February 2010 at 18:40 |
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Eventhough many will either oppose my opinion by either saying its love. Yes it could be it on a time bomb and its a matter of time b4 it exprode. The fact dt the idear is tabled by her and also taking her age into consideration I dnt think its a good idear for him. He is technicaly 24 truely a young man. I am doubting they will live a happy married as years goes on. women mature fast and by the time she is above 34 extra maturity added while the young man still roaming around with friends and dt will definitely jeopardise their marriage. life around us have great impacts
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| Re: Is it right for a man to get maried at the age of 25? |
GBZ
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Last Post: 28.04.2010, 13:56
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| Tuesday, 02. February 2010 at 20:05 |
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Epangelo, u might be correct, but want to oppose you with an example even if i'm 95% agree with you. My wife's father had just tied a knock while he was 25yrs, exactly BrownT's brother. I just get married in 2001 while i was 24yrs and my wife was already 26, but we 're still happy with my family. BROWNT! Why can n't your brother? BUT 1st he must make sure that he s quiet strong enough to handle all the challenges of being a father and a husband at a very young age. BROWNT! Married is not like BUYING a horse, let me translate this in Afrikaans if you can cope ''TROUE IS NIE PERDE KOOP NIE''! Get married whenever you are ready to do so. Don't let someone to drive you into marriage. My brother/sister (out of experience) , your brother will regret if he accept to accomodate such MARRIAGE DRIVING FORCE from her girlfriend.
FINALLY: Did your brother agreed to the so PLAN? did he consultated both parents? did he UNDERLINED the parents' strong points? What about friends? Is he ready to miss a braai or a promotion that may take place just at his house door step? I s he financial stable? Own a car? Own a house? MUCH TO ADVE HIM...................................!
Guys becarefull to such a challenge and note: 'TROUE IS NIE PERDE KOOP NIE' !
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most wanted
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| Wednesday, 03. February 2010 at 08:03 |
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if they are both truly inlove than no problem
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| Re: Is it right for a man to get maried at the age of 25? |
BrownT
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| Thursday, 04. February 2010 at 08:14 |
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Yes they consulted both parents his and th lady's family & their proposal were accepted but he is not feelng comfortable with it but they really love each other eventhgh he is not ready to get married. The guy is always stressed & confuse, what last advise should I tel/give him? please help.........
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GBZ
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Last Post: 28.04.2010, 13:56
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| Thursday, 04. February 2010 at 12:52 |
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Brown T, just underline the two main points in your speech, ie, STRESS and CONFUSE. Hmmm....! Your brother did not even enter the marriage yet, but already sitting with those challenging problems. Agree or not, that your brother is in a wrong turn to his own serious MENTAL HEALTH problems.
YOUR BROTHER IS NOT READY TO BE A HUSBAD (MARRIAGE). Let him tell his wife to be what he feels about this issue, the negative possible effects that might effect him and as far as his MINDS concern. If nothing change, i mean if the lady is still insisting to be a WIFE, then he must TURN ON THIS
PAGE...............
*+* NOTE and REMEMBER*+*
1. He is not somebody's SHOPPING TROLLEY.
2.A man MUST always make right decision
3.He must act like a man, as the word ''MAN" means.
4. LOVE involves COMPROMISING without SELFISH.
5.Give that lady a GREEN LIGHT to the relation of MARRIAGE PATH WAYS, as she is ready and you are not.
6. Never try to compete with those who got married
NEVER RUSH TO AVOID CRUSH!!!!
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| Re: Is it right for a man to get maried at the age of 25? |
BrownT
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| Friday, 05. February 2010 at 08:35 |
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Thank u for your support & keep it up guys. may God bless U
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Dakky
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| Monday, 08. February 2010 at 09:42 |
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@BrownT, please dont let ur brother to put himself in fire tht wont be able to be stopped even by a fireextinguishers.... Seroiusly, marriege is not something from only one part but all of u (partners) must agree and show ur readiness.. Marriege is a destination of every lady so watch out.. I strongly support every comment from GBZ..Thts a good lesson u are giving here and i can just conclude that u are happy in ur mariege coz u knew wat u were doing from the begining.. We are the victims of being forced into marrige and we really need this advice for sure.
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| Re: Is it right for a man to get maried at the age of 25? |
feraricious
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| Monday, 08. February 2010 at 10:30 |
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There is nothing wrong with sum1 getting married at age 25. However, tht person must be 100% ready 4 the marriage, no body should push him coz thts a very big commitment. From the look of thngs, tht lady is desperate thts why she is pushing the poor guy 2 marry her. It can be tht she is planning sumthng eitha 2 control the guy the way she want or it could be sumthng bigger than tht. My advice to you brown is: tell ur brother 2 stand on his feet. he must tell his galfriend tht he is not ready 2 be sum1's husband yet. He must also do the same 2 his family & 2 the ladie's family. Ofcourse the family will talk but thts his own life he is risking, who knows maybe tht marriage might even cost him his life?
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