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ndahafa02
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Last Post: 03.03.2010, 17:13
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| Tuesday, 02. March 2010 at 15:27 |
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What if u have a boyfriend dat dnt lyk safe sex almost for 4 years bt all of the sudden he start protectng hmself, what wl u thnk?
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Dezzie
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Last Post: 19.10.2011, 10:52
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| Wednesday, 03. March 2010 at 11:25 |
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I think sumthing is behind dat!!! Do research ma friend.
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ndahafa02
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Last Post: 03.03.2010, 17:13
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| Wednesday, 03. March 2010 at 11:51 |
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How! Am jst confused, I thought I knew hm enuf, shud i nw conclude dat he is cheatng?
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Still Produk
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Last Post: 06.04.2011, 13:30
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| Wednesday, 03. March 2010 at 12:55 |
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Don't think you shud conclude lyk that, it could be that the guy doesn't trust you or He got woke up by an Ad or experience from society (as in the "break the chain" campaign or a someone he knows close having been infected.. I mean think of that for a sec, and communicate with him... ask him bout the sudden change of attitude towards the use of condoms.. he probably realized something that coulsd set you free of your clarity!
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Cute
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| Wednesday, 03. March 2010 at 14:04 |
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If i was you gal frnd i wil double cheack my men, bt the best thing 2 do is ask him y he startd useing protection maybe he heard something abt u.
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ndahafa02
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| Wednesday, 03. March 2010 at 15:06 |
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Ok.......... if he heard smthng bout me why wudnt he ask me? maybe he is jst assumin n if he is cheatin do u really think he wil strt usin a condom to protect me?
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Dakky
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Last Post: 19.04.2011, 08:53
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| Wednesday, 03. March 2010 at 15:36 |
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According to my experience,, there are many reasons behing tht
1. He might heard some bad news (mite be rumuors) abt u
2. He might gt scared of getting a babe or HIV so thts y he stopped.
3. Maybe he was among the relationship discussions on how the ladies are good cheaters so he loos the trust on u
4. He mite contract the Virus from somewhere so he doesnt want to transmit it to u if he really cares about u.
5. He might got someone new tht he is doing 40 now so he has to stop on u as some of us (men) we dont like giving it natural to more than one ladies per time.
6. He was just maybe doing it coz he was not mature enough and maybe didnt now the pros and cons of 40.....
Those are just the general reason of y a man can immediately stop doing it natural on a lady so just scrutunise them properly and u mite find the correct one maybe...
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Opportunist
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Last Post: 14.12.2011, 16:37
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| Wednesday, 03. March 2010 at 16:12 |
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ndahafa....89,
If you start a conspiracy theory against your lover, you risk loosing him for others. What is so funny with the girls is that; they rely more on suspicion than reality. When they are carried away by emotions, they dump their partners and go in the romantic market-whic is full of 'Chinese ' products.The guys they get afterwards then have been involved 9ex-combatants) and it is difficut to jump the gun and ask for a test before you trust a person-and they have to heavily rely on a condom use (which you may want to make an issue now).
What if he has not heard anything about you but he just don't want unplanned pregnacy? You may also refuse to kiss him when you have an open wound in the mouth/lips. "Why don't he just tell me?", that can be your own business! It depends on whether you tell and share everything. many of your colleagues don't even tell that they are on menstruation unless you detected it though "observations".If he has cheated must he break your heart?
Beeing in caual sex for 4 years is not a aguarantee. Take out the mentality that your man is ever satisfied wit you and only you. How did he get to you in the first place? Even testing is guranteed only the moment the two of you were declared "clean" now and go for an unproted sex straight away from there. despite not knowing your age and marital status, girls have a tendency of thinking that if you give eeeeverything to a man, that will make him stay/yours only. Life is not like that. And life goes on with or without you.Everyone's heart is an island and therefore you may not know what the other is thinking/planning/the other has changed his mind.To give you an example: a lady bid a farewell to a boyfriend going for christmas only to hear that her only beloved man (who has broken her virginity) went to marry another woman-who ha go two kids with another man.
Ok, does life ends there for her? Nop. Is there then life at the end of the tunnel? Yep.
To call a spade a spade; do you find a condom not enjoyable or what?
The challenge is how you make him explain the good reason of a condom use between you two, if you don't feel there is one. It is not about; why now? Why not now? If you take an arrogant approach of "Maybe you....this and that...." even if he feels there is a mistake on his side, other girls will proudly take him-more and preferably with a use of a condom.
What is your take on this one?
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Tuafi
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Last Post: 24.03.2011, 14:12
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| Wednesday, 03. March 2010 at 16:55 |
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Ya you are right opportunistic, lady use to have short mind sometime and wont think on other way around. I dont think there is any problem with the boyfriend starting using the codom which he scarely use before, just be pround of your self that your boyfriend picked up the sense of keeping you two at the safe side, what if all those four years he has been cheating on you without using the codom? Please think twice before coming up with your bad judgement, and at the other side he is your boyfriend be open to him and discuss this together.
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ndahafa02
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Last Post: 03.03.2010, 17:13
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| Wednesday, 03. March 2010 at 17:08 |
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Y is he only scared of unplanned pregnacy nw, if we have bin doin it for 4 yrs, N of cos we r open 2 each otha n if he has cheated n had unprotected sex he mst jst tell me and thn i see how i will handle tht n if he cheated it wil of cos break my heart lyk it wil break his if i cheat. Its nothn bout bin the only one its bout " WHY ALL OF THE SUDDEN IS HE USING CONDOM"?. I dnt expect him to b mine alone cos all men screw arond and all ladies knws tht.
I knw otha ladies will take him wit open hands bt put urslf in my shoes..........U havnt bin using protection wit ur gal for 4 yrs n all of the sudden she jst brings it up wudnt u ask her y she wnts u to start using condoms? I also expect an explaination..................
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ndahafa02
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Last Post: 03.03.2010, 17:13
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| Wednesday, 03. March 2010 at 17:13 |
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Tuafi........
I wil discuss it wit him i jst wntd to knw if thr wil b reasons for sudden change afta 4 yrs n if its te rite thng to ask him.
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